I Am What I Am Not

Ramblings about Oppositional Self-definition as a Nonbinary Person

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I know that I’m not a man. I know that I’m not a woman. But what am I?

This is the question that often plagues people who come out as NB (nonbinary) at one time or another. It can barge in forcefully, shaking all the pictures and dirtying the floor…